Ever seen or heard something out of order happen at the pub or club? Heard a friend make a dodgy comment but don’t know how to say something? Your voice can empower others to say something, too. Together, let’s put an end sexual harassment and the attitudes that cause it.
It’s #SafeToSay something to help stop sexual harassment.
NOTICING SEXUAL HARASSMENT
Sexual harassment is unwanted behaviour of a sexual nature which can make someone feel intimidated, degraded or humiliated. It can take different forms but it is always unacceptable.
Verbal
Physical
Visual
USING YOUR VOICE
We can all make a difference, whether that’s by checking our own attitudes and behaviour, or saying something if we notice a friend behaving inappropriately.
So, if your mate is crossing the line, it’s always worth checking in. If it doesn’t feel possible to challenge them at the time, having a one-on-one conversation later can be just as important.
If you don’t feel able to say something directly, don’t laugh along with harmful comments. Try sharing another perspective which shows that not everyone agrees.
If you ignore harassment, what message does this send the harasser, their victim and those around you? It’s likely you aren’t the only one who thinks it’s wrong, so saying something may give others the power to speak up too.
We all need to think about our own words, ideas and actions. The impact on others is more important than your intentions. If someone feels uncomfortable because of things you say or do, it’s up to you to stop, think, and change, even if you didn’t mean to cause harm.
The more you use your voice against sexual harassment, the easier it will become and the more you will empower others to do the same.
Start small, just a shift in conversation can be enough to stop it.
Remember to only help in ways that are safe for you and everyone involved.
SAY IT SAFELY
Each of us will have different levels of confidence and comfort when it comes to challenging harassment, and it’s important that we only help in ways that are safe for ourselves and everyone involved. We all have a role to play.
If you notice your friend saying something that doesn’t sit right, it’s okay to say something.
REMEMBER: Avoid words or actions that could make it more dangerous for you or the person being targeted. If you see someone in immediate danger of physical or sexual violence, dial 999.
Educate and inform
Conversate to deviate
Safely expose it
SUPPORT SERVICES
Live Fear Free
If you, a family member a friend, or someone you are concerned about has experienced domestic abuse or sexual violence, you can contact the Live Fear Free Helpline 24 hours a day 7 days a week, for free advice and support or to talk through your options.
Get in touch with Live Fear Free advisors by phone, online chat, text or email.
Respect
If you are worried about your own behaviour and want to make a change, you can talk to someone at Respect in confidence about your violence and domestic abuse. A friendly Helpline Advisor will listen to you without judgement and give you honest advice.
Get in touch with a member of the team through the helpline, webchat or email service.
Meic
Meic is the helpline service for children and young people up to the age of 25 in Wales. Meic won’t judge you and will help by giving you information, useful advice and the support you need to make a change.
Get in touch with the team by phone, text or online chat.
Bawso
Bawso is the lead organisation in Wales providing practical and emotional support to black minority ethnic (BME) and migrant victims of domestic abuse, sexual violence, human trafficking, Female Genital Mutilation and forced marriage.
Get in touch with a member of the team through the 24 hour helpline or by contacting one of their regional centres.
Galop
Galop provides confidential and independent advice and support for LGBT+ people who have experienced sexual assault, abuse or violence. Galop provide a welcoming, inclusive and safe space to talk, whatever your sexual orientation or gender identity.
Get in touch with a member of the team through their website, helpline or email service.
Local Services
As well as helplines and websites, there are local specialist support services for violence against women, domestic abuse, and sexual violence (VAWDASV) in each of the 22 local authority areas in Wales.
As well as virtual support, a lot of these local services also offer drop-in services and face-to-face support. Welsh Women's Aid have information on all local services in Wales.
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